Bawdy Intimate’s guide to sex games for couples
Add a dash of fun to your sex life with our guide to date night games for couples. Forget your regular routine and leave your inhibitions behind while you indulge in playtime with your partner. We’re looking at some of the most popular sex games and exploring some we bet you haven’t thought of before!
From sexy board games to weekly kink roulette, we’ve got something to fulfill everyone’s fantasies. We’ll start tame and get a little crazier by the end – it’s definitely not one to read at work, so bookmark it for when you have some alone time! Get ready to add some pretty random items to your Amazon cart, and be prepared for some mind-blowing fun with your lover.
For tame lovers
Strip Twister
A classic party game with a sexy twist.
What you’ll need:
- Twister
- Space to play
Start by designating a spinner, and make sure the spinning board is close to them at all times. Adapt the rules however you want, but if you want things to go fast, take off an item of clothing each time it’s your turn. If you’re going to take it slower, take a piece of clothing off each time one of you falls over. You never know what position you might end up in..!
Go Slow
It’s time to build up tension.
What you’ll need:
- A timer
Set your timer for a length of time you both agree on, then go to town. The only rule: foreplay only. Kiss each other, touch each other, tease each other. The only rule is you can’t go all the way until your timer goes off. With all that build-up, you’ll be in for some explosive sex once the time comes.
The Blinder
Heighten their senses.
What you’ll need:
- A blindfold or scarf
Find somewhere quiet, and blindfold your partner. Use an oral lubricant like Bawdy Intimate’s Blow, and go to town. Kiss, lick, explore your partner… By removing one of their sights, their remaining senses will be heightened. Your touch will feel more powerful, the scents in the room will be stronger, and the experience will be next-level.
For lovers who like to explore
Kink roulette
Explore new sensations.
What you’ll need:
- Kinky fantasies
- Somewhere to write them down
Grab a jar or a bowl, and write down a few kinky things you’ve been dying to try with your partner. Invite them to write down some of their fantasies too. You can add to the list over time. Place a piece of paper with each fantasy on it in the jar. Then, once a week, once a month, or whenever you feel like it, pick a note from the jar and fulfill it within the following 48 hours. You’re guaranteed to find something new you both enjoy, and you might be surprised by some of the things your partner’s been wanting to try out!
Truth or Dare
A classic. But this time, make it public.
What you’ll need:
- A fun-loving partner
You might have thought you left Truth or Dare behind when you left college, and that might have been true until now. Next time you’re on a date, challenge your partner to a game of sexy truth or dare. Push each other’s limits, and see how far you’re both willing to go!
Temperature Tease
Ice-melting goodness
What you’ll need:
- Ice cubes
- Hot water
There’s one rule here: you can only touch your partner with your mouth. Blindfold your partner and have them sit or lay somewhere comfortable. Place an ice cube or some warm water in your mouth, and explore their body. Switch from hot to cold, and see how their body reacts to new sensations. Once they can’t handle the heat any longer, switch places.
For the wild lovers
Right Here
Tell them what you want.
What you’ll need:
- Marker pens
Start by each getting naked, and going into separate rooms with a marker pen. Use the pen to indicate what you want your partner to do and exactly where you want them to do it. Think of it as a reverse treasure map. Take it in turns to follow each other’s directions for pleasure-filled fun that’s guaranteed to give you precisely what you’re in the mood for.
Lucky Dip
What will it be?
What you’ll need:
- A bag
- A timer
Start by placing your favorite toys and/or bedroom accessories in a bag. Decide on how long you’re going to set the timer for each time you switch to a new toy – you have to switch when the timer goes off, no cheating! Take it in turns to pick a toy from the bag and have fun until time’s up. Then switch over to the following toy you pick from the bag. Keep intervals nice and short to keep edging your partner for as long as possible.
Simon Says…
Do exactly as you’re told.
What you’ll need:
- A willing partner
If you like being told what to do, why not have some fun with it. Tell your partner that tonight you’re playing Simon Says, and you’ll do anything they say, as long as they say “Simon says…” beforehand. The game will invite your partner to tell you what they want from you, and you never know what new sensations you might discover!