11 Bawdylicious New Year’s Sex Resolutions
Good sex doesn’t just happen, good sex it’s made. Let’s get one thing straight - good sex isn’t about being effortless - actually a lot of effort goes into making a good sex. Good sex requires communication, hunger for curiosity, and the occasional shake ups to keep things fresh and juicy.
This year don’t be afraid to ask questions, to ask for more, or ask for permission to play your way.
These 11 bawdylicious intentions will help you make 2026 hotter, happier, and way more orgasmic.
ONE. Express Yourself
Good sex starts with good communication even the awkward topics. Express yourself better, say what you like, what you don’t like, and what you would like. Don’t be shy. Share your fantasies.
If you are not great at talking face-to-face then try to write, text, or play a Couple Intimacy card game from Wanderlust that transforms your intimacy, helps to turn curiosity into chemistry.
TWO. Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone
Missionary has had a great run, but let’s give it a rest. Sex isn’t about acrobatics, it’s about exploring new angles, deeper sensations, or simply switching up control. Aim for one new position a month and treat it like an experiment, not a performance - it's worth trying, you might discover your new talents.
THREE. Toy Story
Toys aren’t your allies, not your competition, invite them and use them as props for better play. Start simple with a vibrator, clitoral stimulator, or dildo. As confidence grows, explore toys designed for couples, for dual pleasure, butt plugs etc Make sure to make the experience fun and playful.
FOUR. Think Outside The Bedroom
Bedroom bring comfort but same bed, same lighting, same routine can make things boring. Change the scenery, try the couch, hop in the shower, rent a hotel room, or take it outside to fields and meadows, beaches and deep forrest. New surroundings excite and create new desires.
FIVE. Oil Up
Dry sex is overrated. Great lube enhances sensation for everyone. Experiment with oils, water based, or silicone, warming or cooling lubes to find what feels best for you. We love Bawdy’s Astro or Royal Blow oils for full coverage from your intimate parts to applying it on boobs and butt cheeks, inner thighs and wherever you like to glide.
SIX. Pleasure Chest
Your bedroom should whisper sex not a place to crash. Invest into soft lighting, luxurious sheets, a mirror or two (trust us). Ditch the TV completely. Add furniture that doubles as play space. And for the love of pleasure, organize your toys, lubes etc everything is ready when you are.
SEVEN. Stop Faking It
Fake orgasms help no one, it is cheating especially on you. This year, prioritize honesty over politeness. If something isn’t working, say so. If orgasm takes time, that’s normal. If you need something different, communicate. Real pleasure is worth the hard work.
EIGHT. Share Your Fantasies
Fantasies are windows into fulfilling your desires.Let’s create a judgment-free zone where you can share what turns you on, or what would you like to try. You might discover overlaps, inspiration for role play, or simply feel closer knowing your partner’s inner world.
NINE. Role Play
This is your opportunity to role play, get into a person who you always wanted to be. Role-playing doesn’t require costumes or Oscars level acting. Start with small things like adapting different names, or a playful scenario, or perhaps a shift in power. Keep it light, and laugh if it gets silly - get inspiration from HBO's Sex and The City Samantha and Smith Jerrod “Great Sexpectations” episode.
TEN. Flirt Like A Pro
Send a spicy, sexy text. Compliment their body and mind. Touch them just because - unexpected touch triggers sexuality. Make eye contact that says, later lets play. Flirting keeps desire simmering long before clothes come off.
ELEVEN. Just Do It
Quickies are blessings. Not every orgasm needs to be scheduled, needs candles and a playlist. Quickies are about connection, spontaneity, and sneaking pleasure into real life. Every minute counts.